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You can transform your life by transforming your inner attitude
Karine Lackner
The powerful emotional needs
The Need To Find Connection
There are many reasons why people from all walks of life feel disconnected and rejected.
In a lot of cases, these reasons start very early on in life, before we are even aware of our consciousness. Maybe your father was never home, and when he was, he commented on your weight. Maybe your mother could only be pleased if you were perfect, and so you never felt you measured up despite your hardest efforts. Or maybe you were the victim of trauma or abuse before you even knew what those words were. All of those represent rejection to varying degrees.
As we age, we wonder why we have the same stubborn problems such as relationship sabotage, addiction, weight problems, lack of motivation, or fear of commitment following us around. In many cases, these issues turn into a kind of self-loathing, a resignation to the fact that we will never be who we want to be.
Our conscious mind just assumes it is our own fault: that we are lazy, we aren't good enough, we simply can't change it, that this is how life will always be. Meanwhile, our harder-to-reach subconscious mind is often still stewing in the deep root causes of rejection and disconnection, agnostic to what is going on up at the surface level.
- Marisa Peer, I Am Enough : Mark Your Mirror and Change Your Life, June 2018.
The powerful emotional needs
The Need To Avoid Rejection
Feeling disconnected or rejected can lead to all sorts of issues. The rejection and disconnection can come from parental estrangement, being bullied, having a disability or never feeling safe.
It can manifest as a fear of intimacy, an inflated ego, or an addiction to eating, alcohol, or drugs.
If you dig deep enough into the emotional problems of almost anyone, you can trace their issues back to a lack of fulfillment of those two needs.
It doesn't matter where it comes from, it almost always leads to a person who feels certain things in life will never be available to them.
Many modern-day ailments are a function of humans trying to fill the resulting emptiness they feel.
- Marisa Peer, I Am Enough : Mark Your Mirror and Change Your Life, June 2018
When you like yourself, your life is extraordinary
Marisa Peer
It's so simple, yet true. Everything you've feel is the result of just two things: 1. The pictures you make in your head. 2. The words you say to yourself.
John Muir
which one resonantes with you ?
I AM NOT ENOUGH
I WANT SOMETHING NOT AVAILABLE TO ME
I WANT SOMETHING NOT AVAILABLE TO ME
When you are first born, you are closest to the truth that you are
enough. Even if you are born to parents that didn’t want you, the
universe wanted you—your very existence is proof of that—and
that alone is why you are enough.
The common denominator of almost everyone’s issues is that, somewhere along the way, they learned that they
weren’t
When you are first born, you are closest to the truth that you are
enough. Even if you are born to parents that didn’t want you, the
universe wanted you—your very existence is proof of that—and
that alone is why you are enough.
The common denominator of almost everyone’s issues is that, somewhere along the way, they learned that they
weren’t enough. Not loveable enough, successful enough, talented enough, perfect enough or good enough to be accepted.
- Marisa Peer, I Am Enough : Mark Your Mirror and Change Your Life, June 2018
I WANT SOMETHING NOT AVAILABLE TO ME
I WANT SOMETHING NOT AVAILABLE TO ME
I WANT SOMETHING NOT AVAILABLE TO ME
You no doubt have some fixed beliefs, too and it’s very useful to ask yourself: “Why do I believe that? Where did that belief come from? Who gave it to me?
The minute you begin to question a belief you no longer hold it to be true, because as you question you chip away at it until it's gone.
Everything is available to you and the first
You no doubt have some fixed beliefs, too and it’s very useful to ask yourself: “Why do I believe that? Where did that belief come from? Who gave it to me?
The minute you begin to question a belief you no longer hold it to be true, because as you question you chip away at it until it's gone.
Everything is available to you and the first step to achieving that is to fix that new belief firmly in your mind in place of the old one.
- Marisa Peer, I Am Enough : Mark Your Mirror and Change Your Life, June 2018
I AM DIFFERENT - SO I CAN'T CONNECT
I WANT SOMETHING NOT AVAILABLE TO ME
I AM DIFFERENT - SO I CAN'T CONNECT
So many clients have a powerful belief that they are different.
You can see how this looping thought works. The common denominator of all our emotional issues is that we feel that we are not enough and we feel different so we can’t connect. Yet our survival is linked to our need to connect so it becomes a spiral, a vicious circle.
Today i
So many clients have a powerful belief that they are different.
You can see how this looping thought works. The common denominator of all our emotional issues is that we feel that we are not enough and we feel different so we can’t connect. Yet our survival is linked to our need to connect so it becomes a spiral, a vicious circle.
Today it is good to be outstanding and it doesn’t threaten your survival.
- Marisa Peer, I Am Enough : Mark Your Mirror and Change Your Life, June 2018
Praise yourself ! The truth is, nothing boosts your self-esteem and builds you up like praise does. Most people think that praise has to come from external forces, but that’s where they are wrong. Praising yourself holds tremendous power that the world’s most successful people all employ.
Marisa Peer
MEET YOUR THERAPIST
Karine Lackner
While everyone is different, the truth is simple: You can’t undo your past, but what you can do is change your narrative about it.
Talking about your past for years in a therapy chair stops being useful if you’re not replacing the hurt and pain with a new narrative. While therapy can be helpful in finding that new narrative, it’s rarely required to sit in a therapy chair indefinitely to do this.
Many of our issues can be complex but the way to overcome them never has to be complex. It can be fast, effective and transformational, that's what RTT, my preferred method of therapy, is. Once we’ve located the issues that are underpinning your behaviors, it’s time to change how you frame or feel about those issues. The only person who can do that is you.
- Marisa Peer
Our journey together starts with a " discovery call ", an intro session to see if I can truly transform your life in the way you want to. This online call of 30 mins. is free of charge.
Then we decide if we want to work together for 1 month, 3 months or the time you feel is needed, after which you will be able to celebrate your massive transformation and success.
This Discovery Call is meant to be a first approach to understand your issues.
As a child until 6 years of age we don't have any logic yet, just emotions. A child needs to feel safe, connected, loved, significant, and celebrated.
Unmet needs lead to problems later on in life - let's discover them with deep relaxation tools. I'll show you how, it is easy and never too late!
We will dive into the habit of action - 'Thought - Feeling - Behavior' and will fix the thought. We will discover the cause, the root and reason of your issues by asking your subconscious mind which wrong beliefs were created long time ago. My job is to erase them and your job is to train your mind to make the unfamiliar now familiar. Understanding is POWER!
Let's begin!
